all the candidates are above average. But below top 10% of the top quality girl.
Usually you should know that you can afford no more than top 10% girl.
a girl's value is determined by her beauty, wealth, talent, background. If you rank man from 1-10 according to the same scale. You can also rank girl from 1--10
Most loser marriage are due to mismatch.
a 7 point man try to get a 9 point girl. The tragedy is predetermined at the most beginning. There is mirage , it happen. But is not a stable stage.